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How to Always Get What You Want

Do you believe in luck? Fate? Getting what you deserve? Then you are a fool. Not to mention broke. And weak. And stupid. You are a puppet in the hands of those who control you. You realize you could be more. You could be them. But you are not. Why? Easy. I always get what I want. There is exactly one reason why: I choose to.

The process is simple:

1. WANT IT

You will achieve nothing unless you want it. There is no such thing as "luck". Success is a choice. Desire is the will to succeed. Decision is the act of will. Vision is the secret to it all. A man who has no desire is nothing but a tool for those who do. When your heart is lit by the fire of your passion, your hands will warm the objects of your desire. When you know what you want, you become unstoppable. This is what separates the wolves from the flock. Winners choose. Losers snooze. There will always be someone willing to follow your will for what they lack in their own. Know that without your vision to guide them, they are blind. Use them to reach your preferred destination.

2. FIND IT

If you want it, someone else has it. Do not wait for them to find you. Make your desire known. Know your sources. Ensure you are top priority. Insist... if necessary. Seek a transaction. Make a deal. Name your terms. Do not wait to be asked. Beware of threats. Assimilate your competition. Failing that, eliminate it.


3. TAKE IT

Borrow, beg, cheat, lie and steal. Do whatever it takes. Use other people's money. Use other people. Never pay the asking price. Only a fool buys retail.


4. STEP FOUR IS UNNECESSARY

Library shelves sag under the weight of volumes others have written on the topic... Get rich schemes... Marketing pyramids... Referrals and rebates... All useless. Do not waste your time and resources. Forget the hackneyed snake charmers and babbling monkeys at their typewriters. Words are pointless filler. Only one idea matters. Only will matters. This is the only thing to get. Everything else is a footnote.

Now make sure you do not lose it.


5. NEVER COMPROMISE

Always get the better deal. Do not settle for less than the most. Manipulate, scheme, spin, twist, confabulate, delegate, confiscate, allocate... Never, ever compromise. Lie if you have to. Do not hesitate to eliminate those in your way. Enforce your will absolutely. If you do not, someone else will. Like me.


If you can do this, nothing can defeat you.

Comments

Graham
January 9, 2008 11:45 AM

Wise words, Mr. Fong.

Bob
January 11, 2008 11:51 AM

Interesting approach to the world. My question you wiseman would be, what I can do if there is absolutely nothing in this world that interest me to get. Am I following your advice and walk to the space shuttle and take off?

Kam Fong
January 13, 2008 12:48 PM

Bob: You are either lying to yourself, or are just a very dull person. I am more than happy to tell you what to do, but even I cannot instill you with an imagination. Come back when you figure out what you want, and my words will help you get it.

KF.

Aldon
February 3, 2008 11:37 AM

Desire is the root of all suffering. So therefore, while I agree with your approach to life, business and love, it does tend to promote a life of suffering. Seems to me that enlightenment of the spirit is not a part of your scheme.

Vidal
March 20, 2008 08:09 AM

Mr. Fong. Dearest Mr. Fong. Do you belive there are any morality issues regarding your "Attack, Rape and Conquer" methods?

Matt
April 8, 2008 07:33 AM

I want your money Mr. Fong. now give it to me.

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